Finding a girlfriend in college *Now a Slight WW*

[DJItalianICE]

Even though I'm kind of busy I'd like to try dating in colleg ebut I have no idea where to start or what to do for dates.

I never really had a girlfriend in my hometown and just had a couple random hook ups. In fact, I've never hooke dup with the same girl twice. And all of my hookups have happened while I was drunk. I'd like to feel comfortable hooking up with and having sex with girls while sober, but I'm not that outgoing unless I'm somewhat intoxicated.

And it seems like all the hot girls are either already taken or are already hanging out with a guy when I'd like to approach them. Any advice?

 

[novaspyder]

piitb

 

[mkmatt]

No.

 

[ExoDus]

Extreme makeover. They'll make you hot.
























j/k man Just don't be shy, and try not to approach the hottest women out there. From my experience, the hottest of the hot are nothing but complete idiots and are also shallow as hell. Work on your game. I'm not the best looking guy ever, but I've managed to sleep with 4 decent looking girls, all while sober..one with a boyfriend...etc.

Just be yourself. Best advice ever. And don't drink, makes your decisions a bit better as well.

 

[Mormonstang]

The only advice I have is, don't get stuck in the friend zone .......

 

[02flstang]

girlfriend at college =

 

[tedness]

The only advice I have is, don't get stuck in the friend zone .......

damn can i ever vouch for that. it makes her either:

A) impossible to date

or

B) the most awkward scenario afterward, especially if you have mutual friends


i'd recommend only dating inside a friend circle if you both are certain you would be comfortable around eachother after dating if something happened.

join diff groups or clubs and meet people that way. finding girls at parties are a bad idea. i'm only a second year and i learned that real quick.

 

[Shibby3.8]

damn can i ever vouch for that. it makes her either:

A) impossible to date

or

B) the most awkward scenario afterward, especially if you have mutual friends


i'd recommend only dating inside a friend circle if you both are certain you would be comfortable around eachother after dating if something happened.

join diff groups or clubs and meet people that way. finding girls at parties are a bad idea. i'm only a second year and i learned that real quick.

ill vouch for that one... eeek not a place to be

 

[KiaBeast]

The harder you look for a girlfriend, the longer it will take you to find one.

Don't try so hard. Just be yourself and let things happen.

 

[vertstang232]

girlfriend at college =

i didnt have one for a year and a half and now i am dating one of my best friends who i have been really good friends with for over 7 years and its been the best thing ever. you just have to get lucky and find the right person

 

[Jarryd]

The harder you look for a girlfriend, the longer it will take you to find one.

Don't try so hard. Just be yourself and let things happen.

thats the best advice yet. girls can tell when your acting different than you normally do.

 

[Merlin]

thats the best advice yet. girls can tell when your acting different than you normally do.

This is very true. Ever wonder why you get more attention from girls when you have a woman? It's because since you are getting some, your brain is not in hunting mode. Women can smell a desperate man in hunting mode.

 

[brimg87]

My approach is usually sit by a girl in class and just talk to her throughout the class once in awhile. Lines like, "what pages did he say?" will do. By the end of the class you may have not broke all the ice, but you have a solid start and at least you are talking to her. From here, if she is receptive you can walk and talk in the hall after class and hopefully snag her digits.. The thing I hate is when you find out they have a boyfriend, that can make it awkward.

 

[Jarryd]

This is very true. Ever wonder why you get more attention from girls when you have a woman? It's because since you are getting some, your brain is not in hunting mode. Women can smell a desperate man in hunting mode.

yep, i noticed that right after i started dating my girlfriend, lots of girls started talking to me and wanting me to go out with them.

 

[flipper]

yah, im gunna start tryin that out too...ive never hooked up with the same chick twice, only cuz after i get the whole thing i never talk to her again

but its too much work to hafta start from scratch often...thats why im thinkin of actually stayin with a girl for some time

 

[brimg87]

This is very true. Ever wonder why you get more attention from girls when you have a woman? It's because since you are getting some, your brain is not in hunting mode. Women can smell a desperate man in hunting mode.

That's the trick ain't it. Girls have it so easy, if they want a boyfriend they really don't need to try that hard. If a guy wants to get a girl, we have to be aggressive enough to snag the girl, but at the same time not too aggressive. If we are too passive then we enter the friends zone. Lame.

It's a tough gig.

 

[DJItalianICE]

That's the trick ain't it. Girls have it so easy, if they want a boyfriend they really don't need to try that hard. If a guy wants to get a girl, we have to be aggressive enough to snag the girl, but at the same time not too aggressive. If we are too passive then we enter the friends zone. Lame.

It's a tough gig.

I guess. But I ALWAYS like a challenge. I hate girls that get attached to you because they are no longer attractive. But then again I like when girls make the first move. But put 2 and 2 together and you get a bunch on random one time hook ups that result in friendship afterwards but no more action.

 

[Rellik]

You'll find chicks. They're in all of your classes. Geez man, jsut talk to one of them for crying out loud!

 

[tedness]

don't date during summer. that **** gets expensive.

all the money from my 10th anniv rims went to a girlfriend without me realizing it. fvcked up huh?

 

[brimg87]

I guess. But I ALWAYS like a challenge. I hate girls that get attached to you because they are no longer attractive. But then again I like when girls make the first move. But put 2 and 2 together and you get a bunch on random one time hook ups that result in friendship afterwards but no more action.

The thing is, girls love the challenge too. They think the same way, once they know they have you, they tend to lose interest. Hell, I've even had a girl tell me that. We were dating for awhile and things were going great then just one day she lost interest, bam. It was over 2 years ago now, but it sucked at the time.