ok update
there has been no grinding creaking popping going on when I turn the wheel either way for the past two weeks now! So obviously the new bushings did something there. Score!

my steering wheel still refuses to return to center while/after cornering it almost feels like somethings binding it up im hoping its the balljoints, i get a clunk every once in a while at parkinglot speeds
I have new solid steering rack bushings sitting in a box in the car right now as well, hopefully that will firm up the feel, it feels like jello now lol
Now just to replace the lower ball joints since I know they're ready i think I've decided on getting the steeda X2 lower ball joint kit, but have a question I can't seem to find an answer to. I read that these lower balljoints have a spacer of some sort that prevents lowering the front of you car o.5inches since I guess the joints sit lower in the a arm or something. I've decided almost solely on the fact that ill get a half an inch lower in the front with these balljoints, my question is, is there any drawbacks to installing these without the spacers? Everything is stock as far as suspension goes, is this going to cause any problems with say getting an alignment, or throw off the overall geometry to where it wouldn't be worth it to not use the spacers

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