My sister got pregnant before she was married, it was tough at first but everything got worked out and now my nephue is one of the biggest parts of all of our lives.
My mom works for a non-profit organization that helps mothers who have had something like this come up. There might be one in your area. Womens Pregnancy Center, something along those lines, but not Planned Parent Hood. Everything is confidentail, just like going to a docter. But i'll tell you this now, right now abortion might seem like a good idea, but my mom sees all these women who after 10, 15, 20 years, they suffer from sevire depression b/c they had an abortion and always wonder...."What if.." Whatever comes up Paul, we're backing you man.
Paul. I would say have her go to the gyno. Those damn things dont work that good. The doctor will draw blood. That is a sure thing. Women are strange. Some times I have all the symptoms and I have never had one child. Good luck if this is the case. kristi
I am sooooooo ****ed right now (her too).
anything that we've wanted for our own future is now gone. I'll prolly never get my cobra and she won't even finish school by then. I'm just as much father material as Barry Manalow is black. I've never felt more inclined to jump off something very high.
Man, you can't do this to yourself. Keep cool and like Sexy said, sometimes those things don't work. Get her to her GYN asap so
you'll know for sure. You've got your whole life in front of you and plenty of time to do everything you want to do.
Your right, the future for both of you has changed ... but thats not necessarily a bad thing either. I was in a similar position several years back, everything spiraled out of control and I felt like my life was over before it even began.
My girlfriend would not even consider the other options. I remember praying at nights that she would come around and do what was best for both of us.
Everything changed for me the second (no foolin) that I held my new born daughter in my arms. At times it wasn't easy ... but it was always worth it!
Now, 12 years later, not a day goes by that I don't thank god for not answering the prayers of a young scared kid with no idea of what he was saying or doing.
Regardless of what the two of you decide, I wish you both the best.
Yeah, that's what I would do. You guys have too much ahead of you to let something get in your way. But you could be worrying over nothing, wait until the doctor's results come before worrying yourself too much. I'll try to find some statistics on how accurate those things are. Talk to someone like Junior's mom, they know a lot more than everyone here does.
Yeah well it could be a lot worse....like being put in jail or homeless...or your ex could have ran off with your other mustang and not paying for it and FOrd is looking for it to repo it....it could be worse...I will never regret having my daughter...so what about a freaking COBRA that is material things that you really don't need...society says you do but there are more important things in life....... just don't kill a life cause you want a cobra..
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